“Excuse Me? You Ditched Me For What?”
A few months into dating, things were going swimmingly. He was thoughtful, cute, interesting, fun – just what I’d hoped. And he seemed…
Because the World Needs Twinkling Lights
One of my favorite symbols in literature, and life really, is light. Light is hope, goodness, and truth. It stands for what gives us…
How Much Should My Family Be Involved in My Love Life?
There was a dating emergency the summer of 2011. Both my younger brother and sister were in very serious relationships; two more bridesmaid dresses…
All of Me Wants All of You
At my gym, there is a perfect view from the treadmills into where classes are held. As we runners slog it out, we can…
What It Really Means to Have Someone Stand By Your Side
My husband Kyle and I walked slowly down the hospital hall, trying to figure out which of us should push the I.V. cart. I…
When You Dive Into The Dating Pool And You Forget Your Life Jacket
It was our first date. He was handsome but clearly nervous. And he spent much of the date trying find as many ways as…
A Message To Anyone Who Is Tired Of Waiting For Love
Probably everyone hears at least once during their single years, “How is it that no one has snatched you up yet? You’re such a…
How To Show Your Man You Need Him
One morning, before the baby came and when I was off of teaching for the day, Kyle was trying to rouse himself out of…
Can You Really Just Fall Out Of Love?
The words “fall in love” are a beautiful use of language. They so perfectly capture the essence of an experience – the magical time…
Good Dating Habits That Also Help Us In Marriage
My husband was good at dating. He approached it like a mission, serious about getting to know me and win me. And, you know…
An Introverts Guide To “Getting Out There”
There I was at the entrance of a bar, welcoming new people who have come to attend the young adult event being hosted there,…
How I Almost Analyzed Myself Out Of Falling In Love
My husband, Kyle, once told me that the phrase “burst into tears” took on a whole new, literal meaning for him the first time…
I Was Made For Marriage, But I Had To Wait
I was made for marriage and motherhood. I knew it when I was tiny, as little girls do. I was in love with my…