My ex cheated and lied, and did basically everything you shouldn’t do if you are in a relationship.
I thought he was the right man for me. But he started to become very secretive, and I started wondering what he was doing when he wasn’t around. He accused me of going through his phone and of cheating, even though I had not. My suspicions were later confirmed, and we broke up.
After going our separate ways I felt that I had lost “the one,” the only person that was ever going to understand me and whom I would be fully comfortable around. He had even talked about the future with me, so I thought he was in it for the long haul, but that was obviously one of his lies.
I started to wonder whether I could have a good man in my life, or if they were all going to play me like he did.
I was feeling all down and heart broken when a new man entered my life. I was apprehensive at first because I was still hurt and missing my ex. But I decided to give this new guy a chance to show me whether he was the gentleman he appeared to be.
This relationship is totally different than my last relationship. I have no worries about what he is doing when he is not here or doesn’t answer a call or text. He doesn’t demand anything from me. I felt like I had to take care of my ex, my current boyfriend treats me like a princess and always puts me first.
Our dates together have continued to show me that I can trust him and that he is a gentleman. We have been together for almost three years, and he has shown me that just because one guy was horrible does not mean that the rest are.