Are There Good Men Out There?

My ex cheated and lied, and did basically everything you shouldn’t do if you are in a relationship.

I thought he was the right man for me. But he started to become very secretive, and I started wondering what he was doing when he wasn’t around. He accused me of going through his phone and of cheating, even though I had not. My suspicions were later confirmed, and we broke up.

After going our separate ways I felt that I had lost “the one,” the only person that was ever going to understand me and whom I would be fully comfortable around. He had even talked about the future with me, so I thought he was in it for the long haul, but that was obviously one of his lies.

I started to wonder whether I could have a good man in my life, or if they were all going to play me like he did.

I was feeling all down and heart broken when a new man entered my life. I was apprehensive at first because I was still hurt and missing my ex. But I decided to give this new guy a chance to show me whether he was the gentleman he appeared to be.

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This relationship is totally different than my last relationship. I have no worries about what he is doing when he is not here or doesn’t answer a call or text. He doesn’t demand anything from me. I felt like I had to take care of my ex, my current boyfriend treats me like a princess and always puts me first.

Our dates together have continued to show me that I can trust him and that he is a gentleman. We have been together for almost three years, and he has shown me that just because one guy was horrible does not mean that the rest are.

Elizabeth

Elizabeth lives in Cincinnati Ohio. She is the youngest of five kids, enjoys spending time with nieces and nephews, and just doing girly things like shopping, pampering, learning how to cook, and baking new dishes. She believes that love does exist even after a bad experience, and blogs to share her personal experiences to help others know that love does exist.
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